#26 to think "what if it does" is better than "what if it doesn't work" ya nak

 Assallamuallaikum wr,wb

 

Hi Abang... bang itu diatas ceritanya adalah ada orang naik motor bawa vespa listrik mainan... waktu ayah pulang kantor, lagi kejebak macet.... gak sengaja berpapasan dengan seseorang yang lagi bawa vespa listrik mainan di motornya. ayah iseng deh nanya2...

Ayah : Pak, Skuternya pakai listrik atau batere?

Bapak motoran : pakai aki, bisa di charge jadinya pak

Ayah : wuih keren... lucu pak motornya... 

BM : iya pak... buat cucu...

Ayah : oo buat cucu... umur berapaan pak?

BM : 3 tahunan pak... ini katanya siy buat 3-5 tahun agak mahal siy... tapi ya... namanya buat cucu...

Ayah : iya pak. terima kasih infonya ya pak... ati2 di jalan...

ketika bapak itu bilang... namanya buat cucu... it hit me quiet hard nak... wah... senangnya ya... ada bonding antara cucu dan kakek gitu... it is a privilege that you will not encountered bang... kalau ayah dulu alhamdulillah sedikit banyak sempat ngerasain ngeliat kakek ayah sibuk di dapur, ngeberantakin meja makan dengan berbagai bumbu masak dan peralatan masak... sampai akhirnya nyobain masakannya kakek ayah... atau main catur sama beliau, atau sekedar jalan2 di mal sambil anterin dia berjalan dengan tongkatnya... dengerin papi memberi wejangan kalau ayah dan om dimas lagi banyak tingkah.

sebenarnya dari orang tua itu kita bisa belajar banyak lhoh nak... we can learn from their wisdom, we learn from their mistakes, we learn from their attitude and how they handle things, kaya yang pernah ayah tulis sebelumnya ya.... kalau dulu yang aki inginkan buat anak2nya adalah to be better than him... and it is one of parents tasks is to prepared their children for their future.

now incase... in the future i might not be around you to shared a things or two that i've learned during my time... ayah izin mau kasih catatan2 kecil disini ya... kebetulan ayah baru lihat beberapa tulisan yang menurut ayah menarik... beberapa ayah ambil dari postnya @thesunnahguy

so here are the list :

1. Everyone wants something, including you, so don't get upset

2. Never Over Share, Keep your cards close to your chest, Select who you share with carefully

3. Pursue being grateful for the basic and simple things in life

4. Look after your body (this include your brain ya...)

5. Work Hard in Silence, grind now, shine later. Dont make noise until you've proven yourself

6. Love those around you, most people dont care about others, be different

7. Only trust someone who fears Allah

8. All it takes is one sincere Dua for your life to change, Pursue that and never stop being vulnerable with Allah

9. Family is everything, never neglect them

10. In the end, if you have a relationship with Allah, everything else can flop and fail, so long as u have Allah, you have everything you need

oke bang... ini dulu ya...

wassallamuallaikum